· By Darby Allan
6 Must Rules For Your Next Golden Shower
Say goodbye to your hesitations and hello to pee play! Are you ready to give—or receive—a golden shower? Aside from the obvious safety precautions, there are a few unspoken rules that come along with it. And, if you're like me, you've noticed a large uptick in the amount of porn displaying this sparkling trend. If you're looking to join in on the fun or just curious about what to expect, here are the essential guidelines for participating in this kinky activity.
Consent Is Always Key!
I don't care if you've peed on this person before - you need their consent. Have a safety word if need be, but always make sure that everyone at the pee party is having a splash.
Watch What You Eat
Okay I shouldn't have to say this and maybe there's someone out there who enjoys this and if so - I'm sorry but diet is important here. If you just chowed down on asparagus - that pee is going stink. If all you've had to drink today was coffee - that pee is going to be a bit thick. Have you not drank any water in a while? Well you need a big glass and to wait a bit for your body to rehydrate before playing your next watersport. Don't make this experience nasty.
You Know How To Aim
Your partner may have a preference where you're peeing at. That could be their mouth, face, body, ass, whatever. But just know where they want you to pee at first. If you are aiming at the mouth and they don't want a taste - that can be a bit gross for them. But maybe they do want a taste of your stream. Talk with your partner beforehand to be in the know.
Don't Wreck Your Mattress
This can be a fun experience for everyone involved - but location is important on this. If you just stood up and peed on your partner in bed - remember that it can leave a smell in your mattress. The shower can be a great place for this or your local sex store may sell tarps that you can lay down exclusively for this. Heck - a good friend of mine uses a kiddie pool. There are options to do this in a safe, fun, and not wrecking your home matter. And, if you do this in a hotel room, don't pee on the mattress there - someone has to clean that up!
Have Fun With It!
This can be a fun experience if you're trying it in the shower after hooking up with a total hottie. It can be a part of your dom/sub play. The important part is to have fun. Now of course if you don't enjoy it - don't do it. But you never know unless you try. And Bottoms, you can pee on your top when riding him too! Pee play isn't just for Tops to abuse their Bottoms.
Try It With A Couple Friends
Okay this becomes more advanced but we all know you love being the center of attention. You can try piss play with a group of friends. Just don't forget the kiddie pool.
The Bottom Line
If this isn't for you, it isn't for you. But if you've ever been a bit curious - give it a try. Just hold the asparagus.