· By Darby Allan
69 Valentine's Day Date Ideas
- Visit a spa for relaxing massages and a romantic bath together
- Plan an extravagant dinner night out in a beautiful restaurant
- Buy each other something special, like jewelry or customized couple items
- Create unique, fun cards for each other to express your love
- Have a romantic movie night with your favorite snacks, popcorn and drinks
- Take a day trip to another city nearby and explore the sights together
- Take a dress-up date night complete with all the glitz and glamour you can muster up!
- Make homemade candy together – it's fun, tasty and feels personal!
- Exchange presents or gift each other something special - jewelry, art pieces, etcetera
- Spend some time stargazing under the stars - it's romantic, relaxing and truly magical!
- Get creative with photography - take posed shots to cherish forever or silly ones just to make your partner laugh!
- Stay in bed all day long cuddling and talking about your dreams – both present and future!
- Set up an outdoor picnic blanket in your garden (or anywhere!) filled with treats like strawberries covered in chocolate sauce...yum!
- Get active by taking matching workouts classes – Zumba is always great fun!
- Write love letters to each other that each of you can keep forever
- Surprise your partner by making them breakfast in bed in the morning - they'll surely appreciate it!
- Play board games together - Scrabble is always such a classic choice!
- Whip up some DIY spa products such as face masks, body scrub or lotions for ultimate relaxation after 18 hours of stress at work…it’s sure to hit all the right places!
- Make some yummy desserts from scratch – hot fudge sundae anyone? Maybe even order one from an online store near you?
- Go on bike rides around town – it’ll be good for your mental health as well as physical fitness
- Get adventurous in the bedroom with Fisting Butter
- Take pictures together against interesting backgrounds like the beach or cityscape to add fun elements into it
- Sing karaoke favorites while swaying back-to-back - get ready to windmill battle it out
- Attend drag shows that are related/themed towards Valentine's Day parties
- Go out dancing if either of you two loves doing so
- Host neighbors over for candle light dinners at home
- Sneak away on a weekend getaway…well don’t forget you planning skills there now
- Try playing scenes from romantic movies that you two likes
- Bring out the inner child within both of you by having a game of mini telegraph golf
- Reenact those sappy scenes from chick-flicks that still make us smile
- Dress up formal for an evening walk along parkside
- Participate in local events such as concerts, fairs or art exhibitions
- Make bubble baths an experience by lighting candles & playing smooth tunes
- Play video games all day long hoping its chilly outside & snuggle up later
- Go on food trails & create own versions of what each liked
- Hike through mountains or valleys & camp overnight
- Snuggle under stars with hot cocoa after watching sunset
- Dance away carefree hours snapping pics everything else around
- Visit historic monuments & recreate poses u saw photos online
- Spoil yourselves silly trying different cuisines from eateries
- Prepare exotic meals at home using recipes found online
- Talk about life while riding ferris wheel late evening
- Doodle away creating secret language only known between two
- Digitally send personalized mementos across bytes
- Order odd ice creams flavors neither has tried before
- Try solving puzzles keeping brains engaged entire night
- Create choreography based on love songs both enjoy
- Engage yourselves flying paper airplanes through sky
- Embrace silence beneath ocean waves far off shore
- Try some Sweet Holes together & eat ass
- Participate carnival games hoping luckier find grand prize
- Highbrow things like attending museum showings
- Lowbrow things like checking out markets
- Start an adventure road trip never really experienced
- Agree planning budget-friendly trips year long
- Checkout vintage bookstores & have meaningful conversations
- Ice skating rink perfect go when gets cold
- Give surprise gifts anytime sweetheart least expect
- Organize scavenger hunts exploring place neither been
- Let loose little laughing good cry when needed
- If you're living together, plot your garden! Spring is right around the corner and planning a beautiful garden even on your balcony is a lot of fun.
- Don't forget watch sunrise mornings post blissful sleep
- Cigar club membership provide year long fun! Cigars are very sexy.
- Spice things private photoshoots
- With twist pole dancing classes
- Go wild trampoline jumping
- Paint pottery together
- Snuggle up on a cold February night & talk the night away. Maybe this is your first night together or you've been together for decades. That moment of snuggling and talking until dawn can be really fulfilling for a couple.
- 69 each other all night long. It is the only true dinner for two.
The Bottom Line
No matter what you choose to do, the key to having a great Valentine's Day is appreciating the one you love and making sure that they know it. Spend this February 14th showing off your appreciation, having fun, and creating memories that will last long after the special day itself has ended.
So don't forget - whatever you choose to do this Valentine's Day, make sure it celebrates your relationship in all its multidimensionality and shows off its unique strengths in a way that makes both of you happy. Here's to a loving and fulfilling Valentine's Day for all queer couples!