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We've all done it. The casual hookup. The one nightstand. A typical weeknight for some. Yes, not everyone engages in hooking up regularly, but it is a part of queer culture. We as a community have developed technology before the straights ever did.

It is important to remind yourself of these unwritten rules when it comes to hooking up. We've either been there or know someone there who hooked up with a random & has broken these rules. Don't forget before your next hook up to be ready to Fuck Like a Pornstar. 

Oh no. He didn't text back. Or call. Or DM. It's been a few days...now a week...and nothing? Maybe he's just busy. Maybe his family needed him. Chances are - you got ghosted.

Yes, ghosting is one of the most frustrating things that can happen. What did you do wrong? It makes those questions crawl into your head and leave you desperate for a solution. Instead of waiting by your phone - here are 7 easy things you can do to get over being ghosted.

Has your dating profile gotten no action? Are you swiping right, tapping on every stud, but nothing happening for you? It isn't because you're not a hunk - there could be other reasons you're snagged in finding that boyfriend, hook up, or future hubby.  

All your social media including your dating profile is an ad about you. Your Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, BeReal, and anything else you're on is an online magazine about you. You have to think about your dating profile as the same. Would you buy you? Would you pick you up at the cash register and bring home to read? 

We came up with these 9 tips to help you get more action! There is usually not one trick that does it all but we'd recommend a mixture or whatever you are most comfortable with trying. 

We've all had that moment. You stick it in ready to ravage him and uh oh you're about to blow! It can happen to anyone. Maybe you have had a lot of stress. Maybe you haven't cum in a long time. We asked some of our friends in the adult entertainment industry for tips and here is what they told us helps to last longer and get on your way to fucking like a porn star! 

Societal ideas of dating & relationships is evolving. Remember the idea of finding your "high school sweetheart" and that's who you spend the rest of your days with? No more! More queer individuals are taking these heteronormative ideas of what a relationship are and throwing them out the window.

The idea of an open relationship is no longer taboo. And quite frankly, many find that it benefits their relationship long-term. Having a successful open relationship takes work. It isn't easy for everyone. And everyone involved in the relationship has to feel valued and wanted. Here are our quick tips on a successful open relationship! 

Imagine a world where you couldn't find a hook up just 25 feet away. A world where you have a secret code to signal what you are into and if someone else wants the same thing - you got a match! Welcome to the hanky code. Let's go through what it all means and of course some of the color options you may see out there. There are many lists out there and different shades of color so keep in mind this is not exhaustive of everything out there.